You are spot on with identifying and denouncing visions exposed by many ideologies and I empathize with your sentiment to resist certain labels because of your goal to address the issues directly rather than participate in less productive armchair politics. The romanticism espoused by certain trans-humanists , groups like the seasteaders , the zeitgeist movement, the venus project , and others all have an unrealistic and utopian ideals which makes them fascinating but anyone with any real experience living in a anarchistic community realizes there is no end utopia to be realized or even desired.

I live on a Permaculture farm in Costa Rica, in a small community. This isn't a planned anarcho-cap community and the people come from all ages, nationalities, income levels , and politics; albeit higher amounts of anarchists and libertarians exist in our communities than the general population. There are hundreds of these types of communities all over Costa Rica , and Latin America and they naturally just function as anarcho cap communities because we need to get things done and most people here are capitalists. Many Latin American countries, while being somewhat more "socialist" in nature are also inept as well where people naturally live like anarchists outside of the main capital or larger cities. There are some examples of ancho-socialist communes here that I have visited but they don't do as well as ones that embrace capitalism.

Despite the caricatures portrayed by socialists and anarcho-communists on the evils of an-caps and our love of corporations and hatred of the poor, in reality we have many of the same goals and motivations as them, just different methods at accomplishing such goals. We would rather allow a psychopath to identify themselves by not contributing rather than using force to mandate egalitarianism. When a community is kept small, social pressures can have a very powerful effect and we have been successful in running some of the most dangerous, heavily armed druglords out of town without the use of violence and by social pressures and solidarity alone in our community with our non-profit DRO.


P.S>...You certainly are welcome to come and visit and I'll invite you once I finish building my guesthouse for you to crash at.(kinda waiting on bitcoin to rebound before finishing  )


P.S.S... Yes, most planned developments in general are scams and rely on misleading or false promises whether they be Galt's Gulch(WTF was Jeff thinking?) or any traditional development. The key is to buy or homestead property yourself and just work in solidarity with your neighbors rather than manufacture some dream utopia without any effort.