Thx but I want to host with someone like digitalocean
I have a DigitalOcean droplet that runs a p2pool node. I've also setup CoiniumServ pool previously to play around with it (setup an EarthCoin pool). It's pretty straightforward to do.
If you're going to run a pool, you might want to learn how to do it, so you'll know how to address issues if and when they come up.
Agree - if you want to run the pool - it's best you have knowledge enough to set it up and as well as keep it running and secured.