I appreciate the replies, when I close out the newest bitcoin wallet I get the popup saying not to shutdown until the window disappears.. it never does disappear, and I have to force close the client.. after the popup window though, it will say no wallet loaded, so I guess the most I should have to worry about is reloading the chain.. any tips with the further info perhaps?.. It's strange that no one else seems to experience this..
btw.. I am running on a quad core with 8gb ram and an ssd.. (blockchain and application data are on a separate hdd though)
edit* also, it is the 0.9.3 bitcoin-qt.exe wallet.. same happened with 0.9.1..