Unfortunately, since Bitmaintech won't transfer the order, escrow until shipment is the only way  to do it.

The point to my terms was to make it so that you would be sure to get payment, even if there are delays or cancellations.   I (or not.you or Flep182) takes on the risk something going wrong.  For example, if Bitmaintech is shut down by the government and disappears with all of the bitcoins, you would still get paid even though I would get nothing.  But yes, you still have to wait till they ship, cancel, refund, or whatever so I know I am getting whatever is shipped when its shipped.