Knew these before those are both eligius nodes.Also how can I connect to RelayNetwork? What is their ip address? This 127.0.0.1?
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=766190.0I haven't checked these links for a long time.
Note: accepted != relayed
Note: relayed != mined
Didn't really understood. Is there a command for bitcoind or something?
No. You should write your own tool which connects to a particular node, sends "mempool" command and analyses results. Wanna hire me?