No bailout is the right approach. Many in crypto world feel this way, thats why there is surviving etc. Im not sure why so many Ethereum developers preffered the bailout, but my theory is basically every Ethereum developer and most eth investors invested in the DAO, so they all have conflict of interest and preffer the bailout to fix their mistake and get their money back.
Now compare it with Bitcoin, there are so many services already, so when one service fail, only very small percentage of developers/services/people lost Bitcoin there, and if the few become loud to argue for bailing out their mistake, they would be shut down by the majority (without the conflict of interest) with the arguments bailout is really the wrong approach.