Any exchanges which are not part of Bitcoin itself (or other coin) are vulnerable to attacks (e.g Mt Gox). So it makes sense that we should try to move our trades to a decentralized exchange or DEX. The only ones I know about are Counterparty, Omni or NXT at the moment. On Counterwallet or Omni I see very few trades going through and on NXT I can't see any trades except my own.
I know that there are a few other coins in development with a DEX (BTCD, internet of coins) but I can't see any consensus on which is the best option at the moment.
So what is the state of play on DEXes at the moment? Am I too early, is development still in its infancy?