The thing that bothers me most on this subject is the destruction of the traditional family. The encouragement of the system to tell women to focus on careers first, then children after, has crushed many of the women I talk to in there mid thirties to forty five. I've had women crying in public about their choices, regretting that they've should have focused on school AFTER they found a husband and had a couple of children. They say it's ten times harder to find a good man now. Even if they've found a good man, most of them have to do IVF to attempt to have a child because they just aren't a fertile as they were in their 20's.
I'm not saying this is for every woman, by no means, but more often than not, I hear regret, rather than relief. Religious or not, we should try to preserve and promote the traditional family, in my opinion.