Im trying to understand what you really want to say. But I didn't. I try my best to understand and I hope I answered your question.

I don't know if there's a way to positively conclude on dealing with either manipulation or good intention ahead of time. This is partly because many people can't tell themselves whether their intentions are totally clean or whether they're engaging in self-serving behavior. Most of us are very skilled at self-deception and some people tend to hold beliefs that bolster a positive self-image without really examining how accurate those beliefs. And on my opinion, maybe try to be self-aware of your own needs and desires. When you feel that someone is looking for something from you, and maybe not being entirely honest about it. Try to base the decision on your own desires (including your desires about the relationship--maybe the relationship is more important enough that your willing to overlook some minimal amount of problematic behavior).

I think maybe never question the moderator, If it gets closed then there must be a valid reason. The moderators only close threads that aren't conforming to the forum rules and expectations (unless there's power abuse, but I've never heard about power abuse on the forums). If you would like to know why a thread had been deleted, then you'd have to ask the specific moderator, however, you don't really know who that is - which is another possible reason why not to mention it, as it could start a negative relationship between the original poster and the specific moderator (if the original poster is too immature to handle the forum rules).

I don't think moderators close these sorts of threads unless they have reference to the original thread thus counteracting the purpose of deleting it/removing it in the first place.

Note: Maybe Your thread had reference to a thread that was deleted/closed, therefore it's only sparking and negating the effects of that action, and therefore should be closed.

If you dont want merits. Can you give some merits to me??

Thanks for your advices. I will do my best to have a quality posts and I'll do what you says. And congratulations to you, you'll deserve that. 

Thanks for the info. I learned a lot to do more efforts to have a valuable posts to get a merits.

This is why I loved bitcoin:

1. You don’t have to physically carry it around. You can ditch the paper or plastic and free up your precious pocket space.

2. More and more people and places are starting to accept it.

3. Bitcoin was created by software people who wanted to hack the financial world and create a better system after the market collapse in 2008.

4. It’s decentralized, no need for any 3rd party to babysit your transaction and take a piece of it.

5. Bitcoin is like a bank that’s never closed. This currency is moving and available 24/7.

6. In developing nations, this technology is enabling more practical applications that will enable transparency and combat corruption in governments.

7. The Bitcoin community has quality meme and gif game.

8. As a Bitcoin Holder you feel a camaraderie with this type of savings vehicle.

9. The community has backing from the smartest in the world, from top notch developers to successful VCs — the brightest minds are excited about the application, design, and future of Bitcoin.

10. The price keeps going up and to the right!

“If I were not a physicist, I would probably be a musician. I often think in music. I live my daydreams in music. I see my life in terms of music.”  ― Albert Einstein

Everyone listens to music and it impacts our lives in a variety of ways. You listen to music to dance, to deal with breakups, and to study. Music itself is a drug because we grow addicted to it to perform particular tasks. Music shift our thoughts, emotions, and energy at every given beat and melody. It sharpens our concentrations when we’re studying or reading.

But here are the 5 ways that music really change our lives.

1. Music Helps Us Give Expression to Feelings That are Hard to Put into Words
2. Music Has The Uncanny Ability to Heal You
3. Music Helps You Gain Friends
4. Music Helps You Find Out Who You Are and What You’re Meant To Do. “In other words: Music can help you discover yourself.”
5. Music connects us all

If there were no leaders, the world would collapse into sheer chaos and anarchy. Crimes are also everywhere.

Now let this sink for a minute, You have a lots of people that do not know what is their purpose in the large scale, but they know perfectly what to do to survive. Know you have a great starting point for anarchy where everybody becomes a single functional unit by all means. He starts to gather resources on his own, he starts to build his property, his defenses, his everything. And once he collide with some other functional unit that needs the same resources, the conflict begins.

Yes there is a possibility for negotiation and for building a society with shared resources and be well. This of course needs a leader that gathers people to pack and give them a purpose at larger scale.

The same principle applies to the workplace. Without a leader at large organization, the work would get done randomly at best. But what is more probable, that work would not be done at all, because at some point You will be dependent on somebody else who would not want to work. Again You need the leader to coordinate and give large scale purpose.

Being aspire to become an inspirational and effective leader, you must develop continuously work on yourself and improve your management skills. No one can starts as an effective leader, but you can aspire to improve your skills by learning what leaders do, and how they think and feel, and then by copying them until you become one yourself. I’ll discuss with you some qualities of successful leaders you can focus on to strengthen your leadership skills.

1. Effective Leaders Focus on Strengths

The first quality of effective leadership is the ability to focuses on strengths. They focus on the strengths in themselves and on the strengths in others. The fact of the matter is that strong people have far more weaknesses than they have strengths. You can never achieve greatness by compensating for your weaknesses. But you can become an outstanding person by identifying your areas of great potential strength and by then focusing all of your energies on becoming outstanding in those few areas.

2. A Leader is a Role Model

Another important quality of an effective leader is to be a role model, to be the kind of person that everyone else looks up to and wants to be like. Effective leaders carry themselves at all times, even when no one is watching, as if everyone was watching.
Leaders live in a goldfish bowl. Everyone is watching the individual in the leadership role. They are very aware of the impact of their words and gestures on the people around them. You must always be sensitive to the fact that everything you say or do is magnified times the people who report to you or look up to you for guidance. A positive remark from you to someone over whom you exert influence or control has inordinately positive effects. A negative remark or criticism has inordinately negative effects. Choose your words and your behavior with care.

3 Effective Leadership Requires Trust and Integrity

A third and perhaps the most important and respected leadership quality is integrity. It is the most required and most admired quality of all people, but especially of the effective leader. Trust is the quality that binds all relationships together. The willingness and ability to trust the people that you look up and report to is absolutely essential to your ability to perform at your very best. Sometimes, people come up to me at my seminars and tell me that they like their jobs but they don’t particularly like their bosses. I tell them, over and over, that one of the most important things you do, if you want to be successful at work, is to choose your boss with care. I have seen very few occasions where a person has been successful under a negative or dishonest boss with poor management skills. In most cases, you are wasting your life and your career by staying in a situation with a negative or untrustworthy person because the situation has no future.

Practice these qualities of the most successful and effective leaders to hone your skills for leadership success. Only by continuously improving on your skills will you gain the respect and admiration that you deserve.

Being unhappy is being not satisfied on something. Or simply says Expectation vs. Reality. And also based on the research I've red there are 7 qualities of chronically unhappy people.

1. Your default belief is that life is hard.

Happy people know life can be hard and tend to bounce through hard times with an attitude of curiosity versus victimhood. They take responsibility for how they got themselves into a mess, and focus on getting themselves out of it as soon as possible. Perseverance towards problem-solving versus complaining over circumstances is a symptom of a happy person. Unhappy people see themselves as victims of life and stay stuck in the “look what happened to me” attitude versus finding a way through and out the other side.

2. You believe most people can’t be trusted.

I won’t argue that healthy discernment is important, but most happy people are trusting of their fellow man. They believe in the good in people, versus assuming everyone is out to get them. Generally open and friendly towards people they meet, happy people foster a sense of community around themselves and meet new people with an open heart. Unhappy people are distrustful of most people they meet and assume that strangers can’t be trusted. Unfortunately this behavior slowly starts to close the door on any connection outside of an inner-circle and thwarts all chances of meeting new friends.

3. You concentrate on what’s wrong in this world versus what’s right.

There’s plenty wrong with this world, no arguments here, yet unhappy people turn a blind eye to what’s actually right in this world and instead focus on what’s wrong. You can spot them a mile away, they’ll be the ones complaining and responding to any positive attributes of our world with “yeah but”. Happy people are aware of global issues, but balance their concern with also seeing what’s right. I like to call this keeping both eyes open. Unhappy people tend to close one eye towards anything good in this world in fear they might be distracted from what’s wrong. Happy people keep it in perspective. They know our world has problems and they also keep an eye on what’s right.

4. You compare yourself to others and harbor jealousy.

Unhappy people believe someone else’s good fortune steals from their own. They believe there’s not enough goodness to go around and constantly compare yours against theirs. This leads to jealousy and resentment. Happy people know that your good luck and circumstance are merely signs of what they too can aspire to achieve. Happy people believe they carry a unique blueprint that can’t be duplicated or stolen from — by anyone on the planet. They believe in unlimited possibilities and don’t get bogged down by thinking one person’s good fortune limits their possible outcome in life.

5. You strive to control your life.

There’s a difference between control and striving to achieve our goals. Happy people take steps daily to achieve their goals, but realize in the end, there’s very little control over what life throws their way. Unhappy people tend to micromanage in effort to control all outcomes and fall apart in dramatic display when life throws a wrench in their plan. Happy people can be just as focused, yet still have the ability to go with the flow and not melt down when life delivers a curve-ball. The key here is to be goal-oriented and focused, but allow room for letting sh*t happen without falling apart when the best laid plans go awry- because they will. Going with the flow is what happy people have as plan B.

6. You consider your future with worry and fear.

There’s only so much rent space between your ears. Unhappy people fill their thoughts with what could go wrong versus what might go right. Happy people take on a healthy dose of delusion and allow themselves to daydream about what they’d like to have life unfold for them. Unhappy people fill that head space with constant worry and fear. Happy people experience fear and worry, but make an important distinction between feeling it and living it. When fear or worry crosses a happy person’s mind, they’ll ask themselves if there’s an action they can be taken to prevent their fear or worry from happening (there’s responsibility again) and they take it. If not, they realize they’re spinning in fear and they lay it down.

7. You fill your conversations with gossip and complaints.

Unhappy people like to live in the past. What’s happened to them and life’s hardships are their conversation of choice. When they run out of things to say, they’ll turn to other people’s lives and gossip. Happy people live in the now and dream about the future. You can feel their positive vibe from across the room. They’re excited about something they’re working on, grateful for what they have and dreaming about the possibilities of life. Obviously none of us are perfect. We’re all going to swim in negative waters once in a while, but what matters is how long we stay there and how quickly we work to get ourselves out. Practicing positive habits daily is what sets happy people apart from unhappy people, not doing everything perfectly. Walk, fall down, get back up again, repeat. It’s in the getting back up again where all the difference resides.

There is a possibility because no one in this world is permanent. All things may change.

No religion can ever save your life. But Jesus can save your life. Based on Romans 6:23 (KJV) "For the wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord." Jesus is the only way. If you received Christ as your personal Lord and Savior and confess all your sins to Him. Because For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whosoever believeth on Him should not perish but have everlasting life.

The characteristics of being a good leader is being humble, good motivator and never down his/her subordinates, open minded to all the opinions and suggestions, stays calm, be confident on your doings. And know the strenghths and weaknessess of his/her subordinates so that he/she help to improve their self esteem.

Aside from chess, i liked monopoly too.

It depends on the situation. But most of the time I dont.

I think so. Because universe is very big.

Read a lot of english books or novels.

Experiment thingy. Do the things you've never try to do.

It is very hard to regain trust. You need to prove that you're changed.

My vision of a perfecf future is everybody is equal, no rich no poor which means no corruption exist.