The entire point of listing here is so that we can avoid eBay fees, which is why I've priced everything lower here than on eBay (as in lower than any other eBay listing, regardless of the source/seller), so no, you don't have to purchase on eBay. You don't need my permission to purchase from my eBay listings, you'd just do it, but I'd rather you didn't. I can't be for certain that shipping to Serbia is $55 or not, that depends on what items and what quantity, along with your full address.
Just now saw your post, best to send me a DM. Didn't have notifications turned on for this thread, but I do now.
If you want to use an escrow service, that's fine, as long as you cover those fees, if there are any. I haven't used an escrow service for an internet deal since the 1990s, back in the pre-eBay days. I'm established as it gets for internet deals, so no need, but whatever makes you feel safe.