I have built 1000 of computers, all brand new parts, have had many problems like this!
Newegg.com once told me, about 5% of the parts they ship are defective, hard drives more like 7%.
It may be your ram is 100% fine, but motherboards come with a list called "QVL" (qualified vendor list), if your ram's model # is not listed on the QVL for your motherboard model's #, then it is offically not supported. Nobody really pays attention to this, but I have seen it cause problems! My own PC had this issue a few years back. RAM was fine, motherboard was fine, but they didn't like eachother.
anyway,
bitcoin-qt puts your ram+cpu at 100% when processesing the blockchain, it's the exact kind of program that would mess up if there was even the smallest issue.