Thank you for replying. She wasn't married before. I am 27 and she is 25. I think she just got cold feet. She called me yesterday and told me that she thinks its too soon to get married and she wants to see what else is out there. She also told me she loves me but she doesn't want a relationship with me. This is way too confusing for me. You are right, I am going to just focus on myself for a while and spend some time with my friends.

But ultimately, I want to win her back. I read an article on this and I wanted to get your opinion about this. https://getyourexbackpermanently.com/win-your-ex-girlfriend-back/

 Basically, it says to give her some space and give her some space for around 30 days and start rebuilding a connection with her slowly. Do you think this is something I should do?

Hey all, as the title states - I really need some relationship advice regarding a recent breakup and was hoping that you guys could provide some input.

Basically, my fiance, which we were due to be married in June just broke up with me a day after the New Year. The breakup happened without warning as far as I could tell since we didn't seem to have any major issues and we even spent countdown together. We've been together for 2 years and decided to get engaged because we both share similar frequencies and there was a lot we had in common (we work in complimenting industries, love kids, don't indulge in any major vices and we always knew how to communicate our issues). Like I said, leading up to the breakup, there was no fight or argument. All she said that day was that she can't see herself being with me anymore and needed to walk away from the relationship. She didn't give me a chance to reason out with her and just packed her stuff and left. She's blocked me off all platforms (social media and phone) and I have no way of reaching her, although I do know she's back at her mom's place.

Now, I don't know if she broke up with me because something happened and she stopped loving me overnight, or is she cheating on me, or could it be she's getting cold feet about the wedding and made a run for it? I really hope someone can give me some insight because she won't tell me why, and her mom doesn't know either. I mean I really want her back but based on the reason for leaving me, it would determine whether I show up at her door to win her back or just to walk away?

Would honestly recommend you to distract yourself and not interfere with their relationship. Liking her doesn't make you bad but if you break them up, then yes you're the bad person.

This is a similar argument to asking if guns are bad. There's no truly evil tool/platform in the world, only the bad people who misuse it and cause harm with it. The gun isn't a bad thing until someone uses it to take another life, just like how social media is purely meant for engaging with people who aren't physically close by from you until people abuse it. When they stop meeting others simply because they're lazy and rather talk on social media, bully others, and negatively change their way of life to suit the social media platform, then it becomes bad.

I got really engrossed in Bleach when I was younger and followed them all the way, until their storyline started getting more and more farfetched.

Life is easy, people and their unending thirst for greed, power and materialistic treasures are what makes the world we live in complicated.

Probably try to let go of the negative emotions by either running orrrr taking a nap.

Waking up each morning and telling myself that I will go to bed tonight happy, no matter what.

Some the Asian horror movies can be really scary, especially the Thai ones. 'Coming Soon' was a scary one I've heard.