What if you have a girlfriend. You are just friends. The extent of your intimacy is simple, mild kissing, and light petting. Then one day, for no reason at all, she gets a court restraining order against you.
Often a RS, when there is simple intimacy like this, will place the two of you under the heading of family in the RS paperwork.
This doesn't make sense. Your girlfriend is, obviously, breaking the relationship. But when she signs the paperwork, she is saying that you are family.
What gives? Are you and she being tricked by the courts? Is she really trying to solidify your relationship in some strange way? Is she ignorant about what she has said in the RS? Maybe an RS isn't what everybody thinks it is.
What gives?

The case or scenario you cited atimes happens intentional while some unintentional. The intentional scene are always born out of desperation or deep affect for the person; "I don't want to loser her/him, he/she is cute, understandable, caring etc"; or when she felt that she has given her best but it is not valued by the person. Though, wrong counseling can make her do such as well. Ignorant is not also left out this because when you are not informed, you are deformed.
To me, every relationship should be defined from the onset to avoid one taking advantage of one another.
I hope my response shield alittle light to your questions?