After solving your hosting issues, you might want to solve your marketing issues and bring up that affiliate panel with referral links. You did a great job with the software, I don't care what is said in trollbox about some minor bug with some text that can't be seen or time format that's not working. These are not issues.
Your player base almost doubled since 3.0 launch, it's foolish not to build momentum and 3x or 4x the player base, just by offering them tournaments to play(see bojax's post above), promos like some Big Sunday Freeroll or Krillrolls (even with small prizes) .You could bring back The Big Btc, even with smaller gtd.
You should consider emailing all players about relaunch, there are people who might forgot about SWC.Also emailing about updates and such wouldn't hurt.
There are ways to grow, I won't say more.
You say you wait for higher average traffic. Traffic doesn't play poker nor deposits on your site. Players do. And players want to play, if you don't offer them tables they want to play, they won't spend money on SWC. Easy.
Also, you say you like your site's design. It's not about you, you may as well keep the site private and admire your work at home. Should listen to people's suggestions, even if you don't change anything from a single opinion. Listening to your customers could make a huge difference for your business.
Well..rant over, I'm almost sure my message will go ignored, but hope dies last.
Gl