This question makes me dizzy,For me it is. Call me a prude or anything but virginity before marriage is important for me. So I'm a child out of wedlock. i'm not saying that I had a bad life, I'm totally content with what I have. So I haven't met my father and I get curious and sad sometimes. I sometimes get jealous of complete families and things is always awkward when there is a family day. If only they waited until marriage, I would think to myself. I think people must think of the consequences of what they are doing.