mocacinno, I wrote you a pm before. Unfortunately I can't write more than 1 pm/day on here. I wrote you with my gmail account. Otherwise - as the topic of my PM fits also in here, would you mind explaining me the CPFP process in this topic? Or maybe just send me another pm with the steps? All you wrote was correct btw.
Thanks a lot & Cheers!!
It's actually quite hard to explain this in detail... This is why i made a wizard a long time ago...
1) surf to
http://www.mocacinno.com/page/feechecker2) enter the transactionid of the stuck transaction
3) near the bottom of the page, you'll see a section called CPFP
4) this section has (in your case) 2 buttons: one creating a CPFP with the unspent output that went to the other party, one creating a CPFP with the unspent output that went to your change address. Obviously, you need to select the button creating a CPFP with the unspent output to your change address (since you don't posses the other party's private keys).
5) double check, tripple check, quadripple check the transaction, i would suggest not to use the decoder on my site alone, but also run the raw transaction trough a thirth party raw transaction decoder like
https://blockchain.info/decode-tx6) if you're happy with the end result, you need to sign the raw transaction... Open the debug console again, and type "signrawtransaction [therawtransaction". The output will be a signed, raw transaction
7) try a different raw transaction decoder, check for the 100th time


if you're happy with the end result, open your debug console and type "sendrawtransaction [rawsignedtransaction]"
That is really nice of you, thanks! I get the steps I have to do but I don't have the neccessary knowledge to fully comprehend what is happening. With checking the transaction you mean the addresses displayed in the raw transaction decoder?