One final post, then I'm just going to look forward and leave this mess behind. Some points.
1. I'm an idiot. I accept that. I hope sharing this experience can help others avoid the same mistakes that I made.
2. I can't figure out the message signing with the segwit address. Wish that worked with the Bitcoin Core GUI wallet. Tried Electrum, but had no luck. Not something I need to waste time with at this point. If there is a mod or a trusted member of the forum willing, I'd be fine with sending some sats to them from my wallet. Send me a private message. As others have said, that still doesn't prove anything, so whatever.
3. I joined this forum about 10 years ago. I don't visit very often these days. Merit points or whatever mean nothing to me. Give me negative merits, just does not matter.
4. I have reported this theft to my local police as well as filed a cyber incident report with my state and the FBI. I don't expect anything from that outside of being a statistical data point.
5. I know exactly where this malware came from that got us. Website, file name, time, etc.
6. I contacted one of those recover your Bitcoin bounty hunters, but it's a scam. I figured as much, but wanted to hear what they were going to say. The BS they were spouting was kind of funny.
7. I still love Bitcoin, my wife and my life. While this really sucks, it's not the end of the world for us.
Peace and love, yours truly, soulcity