I decided to give BigVern and Cryptsy just one more try -- I've been trading there for since the spring, thousands of trades. It was only fair to give them another try.
Sent two deposits from my online wallets.... One coin at 65 confirms, still pending, two hours in.
Sent two other deposits to bter... Made a cup of Sumatra coffee, had a shower, and deposits already confirmed.
If/when my deposits ever show, I'm officially done with Cryptsy.