No one has real data to show that a higher block limit = more fees overall for miners, it is simply a misunderstanding of how transaction fees work in real life.
Here is real data that shows that over the last five years, higher block sizes = more fees overall for miners.

Block size has not been changed over the last 5 years, this is what I mean by people fundamentally misunderstand the issue. That shows transaction fees increase as transactions increase with a fixed block limit, but simultaneously shows fees do not have to keep rising since we are not at the limit (when transaction volumes reach the highest levels). That break from linearity at the end might be the stress test too, but that was good proof of my point we're discussing so it's still valid.
Think of it like the oil market. If block size is increased that's like discovering another Saudi Arabia and will flood supply, directly forcing total transaction fees downward.
the chart shows that total fees ( not the size of each fee ) per block goes up, because there's more TXs
1,000 TX paid 1 dollar fee each
or
100,000 TX paid 1 cent each
the end result is the same for the miners
case #1 bitcoin has a limited TPS and fees are high
case #2 bitcoin has unlimited TPS and fees are low
how in the world can you argue case #1 is better?
