I'm looking to buy BTC for the first time

I can send first to a reputable member.
Considering you are a brand new account I would highly suggest escrow to protect both you and the buyer to be 100% honest.
The forums are a dangerous place and I find it extremely odd that you aren't on your main account to do this unless you are some scamtard.
Caution with this one guys.. something doesn't feel right about this post.