I tottally agree with you here. Compared to bank fees, even a high transaction btc fee is almost insignificant compared to the transaction value, the reliability of the system, the easy access and procedures (no paperwork, proof of income and other boring stuff from banks).
If we put into the balance all the advantages of using btc, we should be willing to pay a higher fee than we pay to the banks. Think about it!
Not only this, people tend to forget that international payments
sometimes is really slow, this mean that bitcoin is right now much better in some cases.
About the Fees, is there is someone who are happy with their bank fee? i doubt that... someday we will wake up and discover that bank fees have fees xD