If you are gambling and you lost a lot of money with it, than it is your own fault I think because you started to gamble that much and you know it can be not good to gamble that much.
And the most people are not realizing that and they should know that gambling is made for fun and not to be rich.
Well I realized that and I am not playing that much like you said that I am, I don't want to spend to much in gambling and I can control my urge in betting because I know the consequences in playing it and I know that it is very risky indeed.
Yes it is true about your saying but did you ever wonder why with that risk people still keep on gambling? I will tell you the reason why people keep on gambling, that is because the payout is far too great for every job payment, sure high risk high gain that is the law in gambling, you will never earn big if you never outcome that high risk