My gf had a horrific peptic ulcer same as I did in May 2012 but she was receiving incorrect medicines and care from the doctors in Pagadian City, so I sent her the correct medicines and coached her through a similar near death experience over the phone even I had never met her in person yet. I had only known her for a month on the internet and few phone conversations. Actually what prompted me to take a great interest in her was I remembered that horrific pain (and I can handle a lot of pain, I've played an entire football game with a severely broken nose for example) that was essentially burning the internal organs due to the stomach acid leaking into the abdominal cavity, i.e. burning alive without pain killers for 3 days nonstop counting the seconds in a delirium and burning tissue pain.

So I helped her out of the goodness of my heart, not expecting anything in return. Because I really know what that pain feels like and I could tell from her Facebook postings that she was in extreme pain.

And no I don't have any kids with her and I specifically told her no kids now because I have no means to support them and I can't give the time because I am working nonstop.

Also I have told her that she is free to leave me if she can find a better man for her and closer to her age.

But we seem to understand, appreciate, and respect each other, so those are some of the important attributes that makes a relationship. We don't share too many intellectual interests, but we both like to dance and sing. She is a much better singer than me though. Also we seem to have similar sense of humor at times. Frankly I don't know how she can tolerate me working all the time, sleeping at all different times of the day and night, and inability to have sex for the past months. But I am working on improving these matters.

You Sir, have no couth. You just proved that you are one of the people that your own ancestors would NOT approve of.

Yes I was promiscuous sometimes in my life, but it was my partner of many years who was living with drug dealers who gave me a very bad strain of HPV in 2006 which led to my decline. I was also in monogamous during periods of my life. Btw, I never used recreational drugs in my life, other than alcohol in my teens and early 20s. I don't even drink alcohol any more and I don't even consume any processed sugar nor processed vegetable oils. The only grain I eat now is oatmeal. I probably have much more discipline than you.

I have no idea how my sexual and relationship learning experiences is relevant to my reputation as you are trying to slander it. You've lost all my respect entirely. I now view you as utter and complete trash that should be entirely ignored.

Btw, I don't advocate some of the shit outcomes that you are assigning to me.