I disagree. I gave him the courtesy of contacting him and explaining why before I removed him from my trust network.
This is irrelevant IMO. Regardless of whether you tell him your actions does not change the fact that you were doing to said actions, nor does it change your motive for doing them.
I didn't threaten him and in fact made a point to say, "No hard feelings against you either way." That is called professional courtesy.
Once again, it does not deter from the fact that you were going to remove him (and another party with no relevance to the conflict) because he didn't agree with you on the trustworthiness of a user and would not change a rating he had given. While it may be courteous, it is still trying to get your own way through force or threats.
The thing I did wrong was to suggest Lutpin should kill himself. A sin I have asked forgiveness for. Just because I was harassed for 12 days straight, didn't give me the right to suggest suicide.
I, in addition to many others I'm sure, accept the apology given for that specifically. I can understand that, especially in heated moments, people can say or do things that they later regret and won't hold it against you. The thing that bothers me specifically is some of your other behavior you don't see as wrong.