Quote from: iamnotback on January 25, 2017, 12:58:24 PM

These are damned facts (unspeakable, politically incorrect truths).

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The white men are destroying their own cultural advantages of hard work and discipline by raising their daughters as princesses.

James A Donald is a bit harsh, but he is correct:

http://blog.jim.com/culture/the-false-life-plan/ <---- make sure you understand what makes women truly happy (even if they don't know it!)

http://blog.jim.com/economics/the-future-belongs-to-those-that-show-up/

https://blog.jim.com/economics/the-cure-for-iq-shredders/

Eric Raymond the 160 IQ genius admits it:

Reconsidering sexual repression

The true meaning of moral panics

Status signaling and cruelty to betas

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Quote from: iamnotback on January 06, 2017, 03:55:43 AM

More importantly, what use of a Chinese gf when she acts like a spoiled bitch when her bestfriend says her bf always does "such and such" so then your Chinese bitch expects you to do the same so she doesn't lose face.

https://www.chinalovematch.net/magazineArticle.aspx?urlname=Never-Marry-A-Chinese-Woman
http://www.china-mike.com/chinese-culture/understanding-chinese-mind/cult-of-face/

The Chinese Steemit blogger @sweetsssj also confirmed the above facts about spoiling women and female hypergamy:

Quote from: https://steemit.com/relationship/@sweetsssj/china-s-leftover-women-single-and-not-necessarily-successful

Even though there are more men than women in China, there are still far fewer eligible men that fit the minimum expectations of women. As a result, there is an intense competition for the few alpha males that do live up to these expectations.

As such, a culture of women looking to marry rich men has become quite predominant. Whether it's young women being concubines to rich businessmen, or young girls who will only date 2nd generation rich guys,the story is the same. Women expecting something that most men simply can't give.

Is this potentially a reason why women want more financial freedom，especially as fewer men are able to outright provide them with that financial security? A very real possibility.

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Princesses and Princelings

China has had a single child policy in place since 1979. Only recently has this been lifted. As a result, the entire generation Y has been brought up being the only child. Boys have been favoured because of the strong patriarchal ideology, but when all is said and done, the boys and girls are treated as princes and princesses as they are the only child. This obviously has very deep consequences when the society as a whole expects their sole child to be the absolute best and deserve nothing short of the best. A popular saying Princess Syndrome refer's to the girls who behave like Princesses and have been spoilt all the way through to adulthood. Princelings are the male equivalent. With this kind of princess mindset, girls from this generation find it difficult to accept anything less than the best treatment because they themselves grew up very privileged. This of course exacerbates the situation that men already find it hard to provide the very basics, let alone the extra's which may end up costing even more.

Luxury goods, extravagant living and general decadence is something alot of generation Y girls have grown up to expect. Providing these to a girl is out of the realm of possibility for a normal man, and only possible to the top alpha males in society. With so much pressure from society on what is considered living a good life, the expectations of these princess have largely become inaccessible to them should they marry someone with a normal background. Once again, this barrier results in women having to risk searching until they find the ideal man, or build up some financial security themselves whilst they look for that ideal partner.

Quote from: https://steemit.com/culture/@sweetsssj/standing-at-the-crossroads-of-different-cultures-relationships-guan-xi

In China, the situation is contrasted by parents who take responsibility for their children throughout their life, not just till they're 18. In-fact, parents will worry about their children's financial condition all their lives. Most of my friends who have stable jobs will also accept parental subsidies. In one extreme case, the mother of a person I know, sold two houses just to hold a big wedding ceremony. This is an act of kindness and mutual affection through which the depth of the relationship between the parent and child is evident. In China, blood relationships and family play the most important role in people's lives.

And recently she laments how it is destroying the men:

Quote from: https://steemit.com/relationship/@sweetsssj/miss-opinionated-guys-that-grind-my-gears

First let me clarify, I don't think there is anything wrong with gaming. It's a perfectly valid hobby and a great way to socialise. But what I hate the most is when gaming becomes a form of escapism from real life responsibilities such as working a job, or planning a career. Sure, there are professional gamers out there who are dedicated to being the best they can be and even making a living, but i'm not talking about those people! I'm talking about the ones who spend all day grinding MMORPG's, going raiding, farming etc. It's as if their virtual achievements give them a sense of accomplishment that eclipses the importance of real life responsibilities.

Quote from: https://steemit.com/relationship/@sweetsssj/miss-opinionated-guys-that-grind-my-gears#@lethn/re-sweetsssj-re-lethn-re-sweetsssj-miss-opinionated-guys-that-grind-my-gears-20170124t143424459z

Yeah, I get what you're saying, with the way society is right now though I honestly can't blame them sometimes Sad

if you remember my post about dating girls in the UK that's what I'm thinking of, it makes me want to just hide and play computer games as well.

She isn't quite understanding that her culture is failing. China is destroyed.