Hi, if you want to get confirmed faster, you should put higher fee. I paid about 0.0009 BTC on fee and it has 3 confirmation less than 24 hours. But i use it to pay my members (mass payment), i think if you're just sending to one people maybe you should use Coinbase, there is selected fee, you can't change it but your transaction will get confirmations very fast
am just so tired over this right now.. don't know if blockchain.info can prune this as they did with the first ones so i can send it again with a high fee. or if possibly i can pay someone to get it confirmed. am so ready for this.