I wrote down the passphrase with pen and paper, I added whitespace after each word and now it no longer says passphrase incorrect however it says insufficient funds so I guess I opened another NXT account and not my own then?
Seems like my Ardor might be gone forever, maybe I'll try get in contact with someone PC savy that can try figure out this mess in exchange for some of the Ardor.
You might have luck with contacting Riker, he's a core dev:
https://nxtforum.org/index.php?action=profile;u=491Make sure to provide as much details as possible in a private message to him.