"Please, tidy up the kitchen, will you?" (Abide by my rules and I'll take your blocks for good.)
"No, I'm going to do the bedroom. The kitches is a remnant from an era when people used to cook for themselves. Now it's catering all over. Bedroom." (I make the rules, I'm the miner.)
Sounds like you are saying that users (other than the miners) have any say in what blocks get accepted, and what blocks get rejected.
Nodes do. Financially heavy nodes, more so.