If you are looking at ICOs atm, I'd recommend these:
Kin by Kik - they are a big established company unlike many ICOs without product
Kyber networks - backed by a huge list of people
Slvr - pegged to real asset by pegging to silver
For already listed ones, maybe golem or waves. These two are considered less known by ordinary people standard.
Im a big Silver guy, the world most undervalued asset, but if you don't hold it, you don't own it.
I thought I replied to this thread, must have failed to send.
Btw, I feel you, it's better to hold it than to have someone hold it for you.
Having said that, we have moved to not holding assets ourselves. Most of our cash is in the banks, in digits. And good precious metal storage uses mutual funds where the fund manager helps spread the risks between different mining projects. I see SLVR as a kind of fund manager, minus the big fees of course.