Capitalism- an historical era where the means of production and products belonged exclusively to moneyed entrepreneurs, state officials, and speculators due to state protection of legal claims to privateized property.
There, does that not cover both communism and capitalism as they have always existed?
Well, of course not, but at least it's a start. What you seem to be railing against could be either corporatism (i.e. fascism) or merchantilism, or both; but it's certainly not capitalism in it's natural form. Both of those could be considered corrupted versions of capitalism, so I can see the confusion, but one should be willing to start with first principles.
The first principle is this...
Who owns you? Is there anyone who has a greater claim upon your body, thus your life, then yourself? If we cannot agree that I own myself and that you own yourself, as nominally free adults, then we can't proceed.