Quote from: Advk7700 on November 24, 2017, 03:24:15 PM

Quote from: aleksej996 on November 24, 2017, 12:31:00 PM

Well I think it says a lot about a person if they specifically date younger people. It would mean that probably that person is not as interested in his mate's maturity as much as other aspects.

There is no rule of course, but if a person dates someone that is a lot younger, it could seem like they are taking advantage of them and they possibly are, even if it unintended.

I personally feel like the 80% younger person has a pretty low possibility to be close to your equal in maturity, but even bellow 90% can be suspicious.
I guess you can see connection between that an IQ, as I believed that once IQ was defined as a maturity compared to age, where 100 means 1:1 ratio.
There is only a very small percent of population bellow 80 percent of IQ and they are classified as having border-line deficiency.

The point is that it isn't really fair to the less mature person to be in a relationship with someone quite more mature then them.
The wiser person in a relationship could quite possibly take charge and get his/her way even in the best intention.
Certain equality between the couple seems to be quite necessary, but there are of course many people in many different situation in their life, so making any quick judgments could be unfair.

Basically Age should not matter because If you getting a partner who understand you and love you more than anyone, so it wont matter if she is younger or older than that of you......

Sure, but my point was that that is unlikely and is a bad sign.

Quote from: white01 on November 25, 2017, 12:50:09 AM

Quote from: aleksej996 on November 24, 2017, 12:31:00 PM

Well I think it says a lot about a person if they specifically date younger people. It would mean that probably that person is not as interested in his mate's maturity as much as other aspects.

There is no rule of course, but if a person dates someone that is a lot younger, it could seem like they are taking advantage of them and they possibly are, even if it unintended.

I personally feel like the 80% younger person has a pretty low possibility to be close to your equal in maturity, but even bellow 90% can be suspicious.
I guess you can see connection between that an IQ, as I believed that once IQ was defined as a maturity compared to age, where 100 means 1:1 ratio.
There is only a very small percent of population bellow 80 percent of IQ and they are classified as having border-line deficiency.

The point is that it isn't really fair to the less mature person to be in a relationship with someone quite more mature then them.
The wiser person in a relationship could quite possibly take charge and get his/her way even in the best intention.
Certain equality between the couple seems to be quite necessary, but there are of course many people in many different situation in their life, so making any quick judgments could be unfair.

So if i am 40 and dating a 28years old girl, that can be a case of taking advantage of another?
What of females who naturally prefer dating older male. who is taking advantage of who?

It can be taking advantage. Not saying it has to be, but very likely, at least unintentionally, in most cases.
I think you know the answer to this one. Just because someone wants something, doesn't mean that it is best for them.
Young people make mistakes and when older people know it and still agree to be part of it, it isn't really a good deed.