what is terrible is i cannot send anything out of my wallet to pay a site cause of the error code i am getting. those free sites did nothing. any other options?
since all addresses are yours, you can do CPFP or double spend tx
if you do CPFP, just use one of the unspent in that tx and set tx enough to cover both txs
if you do double spend attempt, you have to extract privkeys of inputs from bc.info