Curkowski people are giving you legitimate answers, and you are saying "you are getting it", and even volunteering some explanations on your own, but then you end up asking the same questions over and over again, which leads me to think you are either not really getting it or you just like to write repetitive text walls...
1) BCH is an altcoin, there are many other altcoins out there which can be argued to be more pragmatic and even more "in the spirit of Satoshi whitepaper", etc. so none of these can count as a valid argument to why BCH should take over...
2) If BCH had similar popularity as Bitcoin, it would undeniably face similar problems with network clogging, transaction costs, etc. Meanwhile it can be argued that it already is more centralized than Bitcoin, and even at its inception BCH was a very problematic and biased fork which many people vehemently opposed and are opposing to this day. It would be a bit ridiculous to assume that a coin that divided the community on such sharp lines from the get go can smoothly go on to become number 1, or that any of the advantages it appears to have over BTC can not be replicated or improved upon by other much better contenders, and probably by even BTC itself down the line.
Now I sincerely hope you don't respond by "getting it" and then repeating the same trite questions again & again...
Jesus Christ, look at the name of the topic. It has BTC and BCH in it, so we talk about them, not other altcoins necessarily. I dont know whats confusing you, I said that when we bring other coins and projects into discussion, we can say that there are better options to invest than both BCH and BTC, no doubt about it, but the community still continues to bash on BCH and praise BTC, thats the fun part.
Seems like the major part of BTC community are either admitting that there are better options than BTC AND BCH, are aware of its problems but still bash on BCH and praise BTC like there are no coin besides those two, or despite everything pep talk to themselves and ride that BTC train to death or "moon"..., thats whats buzzing me, and thats why I was curious for explanation" why talk so negative about BCH even thought being aware that there are far better options than it, and admitting that BTC has gone to hell"... It seemed unlogical to me, thats it. You putted it very nicely, I wish more people would be fully aware of that but there are shitload of peeps that know that but still continue to make this BCH vs BTC war a thing, instead to turn to something other and better than that....Thats what I am pointing at.
NHF bro, chill