Many accounts, like mine, don't focus on earning merits, but giving them away.

Make a good ~~pose~~ post and someone will notice.

The problem is what really qualifies as a REALLY, REALLY, REALLY GOOD post?

You don't need to give merit to a REALLY, REALLY, REALLY GOOD post. Just a post you find interesting or useful.

I have 10 merits and I sent 5 merits to one member but, it did not transfer

10 merits for member then you only have 1 smerit i guess which is not enough to send 5 merit.

yes that is true, if i had merits i have been sent you some smerits