You are going to use your bank account either way old fart. or you could find another old fart to sell you Bitcoin for cash. you could keep your money for yourself and not giving them to your ex, if that's what you are looking for.
No, OP is going to use an ATM and feed bills into it. It can be done without banking if you have a cash hoard.
YES and no cash hoard lol.
I just don't want to use my bank account at all. All I'm trying to figure out how to do is buy bitcoin and then send to another person every now and then. I don't and won't do any banking online and I never sync my account to anything.
Thank you
Damn, dude. Well you did say it was nasty.