But the way this forum treats "newbies" is just ugly.
No, the way newbies treat this forum as a free money dispenser is what's ugly.
If all people would do that, we would have 1000 Bitcoin forums. What the point it that!
Ultimate decentralization, isn't that what you're aiming for?
You want to take advantage of this forum but you don't want to conform to its rules and etiquette. You also seem to be doing the same thing on Reddit. I don't think you have any standing to complain about being treated poorly.
Certainly going around calling people assholes and cunts probably isn't the best way to earn merit or establish a positive reputation.
You can do it, just make sure they are indeed assholes and cunts. I would merit a good insult.