She cant allow or disallow it because god is a figment of your imagination. She cant destroy me because she only lives in the mind of you, David Koresh, and millions of other nutters.
She has turned someone into rock salt, caused a flood that killed almost everyone, killed children, killed women, created plagues that terrorized her creations and generally shown contempt for something she created.
I never understood why a god would need to have a gender. I assume it was written that way because men were dominate at the time.
If a god were to have a gender, it would probably have to be male, considering all the violence and controlling it does...