Quote from: Vod on October 16, 2018, 07:37:38 PM

Quote from: impactress on October 16, 2018, 01:51:23 PM

I can't give any other collateral then my sign, my personal data and my payroll as a proof- we could make a contract, that you can take the money from my employer, if I don't pay back the sum.

Or you could ask your employer for a loan and have the employer take the payments out of your paycheck.

Your employer doesn't trust you'll stick around? Then why would anonymous strangers? Roll Eyes

I'm working for the company since 2007 and I completed my education after school here; so employers lack of trust isn't the matter

(I hope that some of the following words are correct, because I used google translator

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Unfortunately, it's impossible to get a loan/

wage in advance, in this case- our company only gives a loan in case of a "special reasons", for example:
if one your relatives dies and if you're responsive for the funeral (like I got as my dad died few years ago).

We got a collective bargaining agreement and there's a guideline where are the reasons to find:
- Change of residence for a compelling, personal event.
- death/funeral or heavy illness of family members, if you're responsive for them
- if you're disabled/got disabled (70%) and for the first time, you have to buy a car that is equipped for the disabled, if it's neccessary for the way between home and workplace.
- if you marry, divorce or move out at your parents home (for the first time) and you have to buy furniture,etc. (same reasons if it is one your children, except of their divorce)
- you have to buy new clothes or furniture because of a loss by fire/water case,etc., if it's not paid by insurance
- Illness or death if aid can not be granted because the question of a claim for damages due to unauthorized action against a third party or insurance is still unclear

The possibility to get wage advances/loan without a special reason was changed in 1999 (i can proof, because every change of the agreement can be found in our intranet, like the agreement itself- but I can't post it this Thread where the whole world can read it- I think you understand the reasons and in the end it would only be interesting for those that are thinking about helping me), so it's not fair, that you rated me and added the comment, that I'm trying to scam 0,5 BTC- even if I can understand that it looks weird if someone asks for it out of the blue Sad

now why Im asking for a loan:
My boyfriend left me few weeks ago; suddenly for another woman- but that's not the reason, as you can guess.
We've been together for a long, long time- that's why i trusted him and i've never thought that he could be like this, like he was at the end.

Meanwhile our realationship, he had much debts that he has to pay and of course- after beeing together for many years- i did my best to help him as much as I could.
So i did take a loan, that he just had to pay one bill instead of many few bills and with the loan we were able too pay lower costs at a few creditors because it was okay or them to take lower money, if we pay immidieately.
Only the loan rate is 500 every month, (I know it's my own fault; I never should have been this stupid to put my trust that much into someone, even if it's my boyfriend and we're together for many years- but never a failure, always a lesson. Next time I know it better) but I can handle it.

let's go further..
He was the one that paid the rent for our appartment, he got the half of the costs every month from me- now, where he is gone- I got a call from the lessor and he asked me, if I could tell him when the rental fee will be paid for the last two months, that he is calling me because he can't reach my ex- I've told him that we're not together anymore and that I don't know why he didn't pay. The lessor said that he's understanding, but he want at least one of the missing rental fees, otherwise he will cancel the contract immidiately. I tried to call my ex to ask what he think he is, because he knows to take the half of the money for the rents from me and not paying- but as you can guess he didn't answer the phone.
The next problem is, my car is broken and the repair of it will be around 700-900 , depends on how many hours it will take to fix it.
But the most important problem for me is, that one of my cats got the diagnostic FORL on monday (it's the german shortform, i don't know if it's the same in englisch); it's a disease of the teeth where the roots "vanish"; under x-rays the doctor could see that there a 7 teeth that there are seven teeth that has to be extract, two of them are that massive diseasesd that the teeth did broke and the root is lying free now, what causes the aches right now. The surgery will be around 1.200 . I asked for payment in rates, but after checking my creditworthiness they said no; I already asked other doctores- all of them are telling me, that i only can pay in rates if my creditworthiness is okay...and that's the greatest problem.
The broken car is my smallest problem; most urgent is my cat because he is having heavy aches and can't eat really right now, even if i small the food at most as i can; and thats the most important for me because my cats are my dearest and i don't know what to do. I was looking in the whole Internet for a loan, but all the banks are declining my asking, neither my homebank is willing to give me a loan. I could live without the car right now, what means that I would need a little less of BTC if no one want's to help me- but the rental fee is important and the most important are the cost for the surgery.

thats why I landed here and feeling like a poor girl because it feels like begging but i really don't know what to do- all that together hurts enough, so please don't call me a scammer, or intruder or something else like this..