Quote from: Islapdonkey on April 22, 2019, 10:58:50 PM

Quote from: buddythemate on April 15, 2019, 01:35:20 PM

Why you have haters even if you arent an asshole:

Many people wonder why haters exist. Why would anyone criticize the accomplishments of others? What motivates a hater to hate? And what motivates a hater to hate on you, specifically?

A hater is someone who discredits, devalues or downplays your accomplishments.

Your failures make a hater happier than their own success. Haters need to see you go down to lift themselves up.

If you have haters, the solution is simple: ignore them and keep doing what you do. If a hater can directly influence your plans, then your plans arent ambitious enough.

You can usually dismiss a hater. If youre bored, you can harass them. If youve got nothing better to do, theyre great fun to troll. But I dont recommend wasting your time or energy on haters.

There is no magic wand to get rid of haters. There is no secret spell to win them over to your side. Some people wont like you regardless of what you do. Thats alright. The world is a big place.

Many people wonder why haters exist. Why would anyone criticize the accomplishments of others? What motivates a hater to hate? And what motivates a hater to hate on you, specifically?

If youre a genuinely mean person, success isnt the reason why you have haters. You have haters because youre an asshole. Your success exposes you to more people, and those people also discover that youre an asshole. If so, the following does not apply to your haters.

For those of you who arent assholes, however, I present the top 5 reasons why you have haters.

Fair warning though: once you understand them, you will no longer feel confusion or even dislike. Youll just feel sorry for them.

1. You have haters because you improved

This reason underpins all of the others. Everyone wants the good life. Few people are willing to do the work necessary to get a good life.

When you work hard and improve, you will get more of the good things in life. Rather than elevate themselves to your level, haters would rather drag you down. The quickest way to get haters is to succeed.

Since people arent willing to exert the effort required to get the best things in life, they have to believe that you were the recipient of a blessing. Average people will hate you because they think you are lucky. By definition, most people are average.

2. You have haters because you surpassed people
Your improvement may bother people who are used to you existing below their level. They may openly campaign for you to get your life together, but they secretly relish their superiority over you.

If you spend most of your time around people who care about you, you wont have this issue. Close friends and family genuinely want you to succeed. Your casual peers will not because change disrupts the social order they rely on for their self-esteem.

When you move past them on the social ladder, theyll feel a need to pull you down. Progress on the social ladder is almost always the result of progress in other areas of your life.

They will constantly remind you of things you did or ways you thought once the roles are reversed. Their hope is put you back where you were so that the balance of power is restored.

3. People passed on you so now they hate you
You often see this in the romantic realm. Once upon a time, you were interested in a person. This person did not return the interest.

If theyre nice, they friend-zoned you. If theyre savage, they ripped your soul to shreds. You got over it.
In the meantime, you improved into an attractive person. Now they want to give you attention.

But you arent interested because youre capable of attracting higher-quality people now. You also remember that they snubbed you.

These people morph into a diabolical type of hater. Youve elevated yourself to someone worthy of their time, but you dont want them. Since they missed the opportunity to have you, they get sour grapes syndrome when the situation is reversed.

They invent reasons why you arent worthwhile. This makes them feel justified in hating on you. After all, there must be something wrong with you since youre no longer interested.

4. You werent supposed to become anything
If your life is on a downward spiral, people will write you off. I dont condemn this because theres no point in going down with a sinking ship if the captain is determined to destroy it.

If you manage to turn things around after the ships been abandoned, some interesting things happen.

Some people will be angry that you didnt drown. Theyll hate that youve acquired a better life. You were supposed to be nothing. Instead, you became something.

This sounds similar to the surpass people motivation for hate. The difference is that you dont have to surpass the person. You dont need to fly higher; you just have to not crash.
These toxic personalities only feel satisfied when others suffer. If you come back to life after being left for dead, they need a narrative to explain why they abandoned you.

Rather than explain that you were a mess and wish you well, you have to remain the bad guy. Its easy to hate the bad guy.

5. You stepped away from the nonsense. Haters didnt.
Maybe you werent the captain of the ship, but you were the first mate. Still, it was destined for disaster. One day you got smart and jumped ship.

For the rest of your days, youll be the worst type of human being to the individual or group you abandoned. Even though you acted in your best interest and became a better person, all they can see is that youre now a traitor.

This is another reason why people remind you of what you used to be or where you came from. This is said to hold you down or to pull you back. If where you came from was trash, the other rats will resent you for escaping the sewer.

This list is not exhaustive, but if youre experiencing unexpected hostilityespecially from people you once or still do consider friendsthese are the most likely reasons.

Source: https://edlatimore.com/the-top-5-reasons-why-you-have-haters-if-you-arent-an-asshole/

Enjoy everyone and please stop hating!

yes Mr newbie, we all hating on this piece of shit premined feces that is similar the multitude of feces littered over this forum. Either that or we have the investors interest in mind cos we have been around here for awhile and can easily spot a quack when we see one.

@Islapdonkey: I'm a Hero Member but didn't want to shit on your face using that account. Your shitty comment made me go and sign up for a new account and use it to CRAP on you. You're a fucking hypocrite fucking shit face who's Bitcoin account signature is a link and logo of a project with 25 million premine for a project with 100 million maximum supply (25% premine) which only offers 3 coins rewards per block!! A looser cannot get any bigger and sore than YOU IDIOT SHIT FACE! You're a shit face looser who's scam project didn't make it now you're harassing other new projects that have a chance of succeeding by doing it the right way, working hard, and taking more honest steps. In case you change your signature out of embarrassment here's the link and supply info for your shitty project. And after 3 years on Twitter it has only 9 followers, but following 2,640 people!!!!!!!!!!

Your supply breakdown:

Coin Distribution

100,000,000 SEM Maximum Supply

Block Rewards: 75,000,000 SEM

Block reward: 3 SEM / block

Community distribution: 10,000,000 SEM

Alpha test rewards: 1,349,660 SEM
Beta test rewards: 864,000 SEM
RC test rewards: 150,000 SEM
Airdrop to bitcointalk users: 1,016,600 SEM
Airdrop to bitcoin holders: 1,207,905 SEM
Airdrop to ethereum holders: 32,906 SEM

Development and marketing: 10,000,000 SEM

Founders: 5,000,000 SEM

Link to your project:https://www.semux.org/

Oh, and go ahead and report this reply because I don't give a fk.