Could it be your both partially right?
This is absolutely the case.
I haven't read yet what made this such a hostile situation, but if the two of you can't just sort this out over a virtual beer, I'll share my opinion after reading more of it. But that's not going to be tonight.
Since it appears I'm at least 50% right so far, I'll accept 50% of Ryans's promise & donate it.
I still think 50% is far more than "remotely"... hell, .5 rounds up to 1 for a reason!