Quote from: hahay on January 17, 2020, 10:53:28 PM

Quote from: vintages on January 17, 2020, 05:47:23 PM

Quote from: Rengga Jati on January 11, 2020, 04:30:42 PM

What help do you mean here? Giving some money or suggestion to him? If it is about the suggestion, I will always be ready to help anytime. But once helping a gambler with money, I am not really sure since it won't recover him from addiction, nor their loss. We may relieve his loss at that time but he will make another loss tomorrow. So, I think it is not an effective way or the right way to help him.

There is more sense in the point you made. An addicted gambler will always be one till they fully make up their mind to stop. Coupled will self will an dedication.
If one help them with money, there is higher chances they will go back especially when he got it easily. He or she will believe they will beg and the money will come. Later help them in solving their problem than giving them cash.

Yes, no one will give them money for reasons about this case, once they are given money then they will do it again and again, it would be better to help him get out of gambling addiction by getting him to work or anything that basically there are still many solutions another better and more effective way to help her get out of this suffering.

This is very common with most of those that are addicted to something, they will deny it but as soon as they get in trouble they are going to ask for help and if you do not give it to them then they are going to blame you for their problems even if they are the ones that are completely responsible for them.

And if you try to give them an advice about how to leave their gambling problem they will never accept it thinking you want to take control of their life even if you just want to help them.