Find a girl that s the only solution, the girl can be your life partner or just a partner to have sex alone for money or anything in favour to her.Don't worry it will eventually change once you find a girl and sex with her in real.
Yup, I do agree with you. Sex is the best way, though not readily available especially for some who finds it hard having a girlfriend. I do not recommend having a paid sex (but you still can) because at some cases you may end up getting addicted with it. But I don't think this is the
only way.
Your suggestions are really good and will work in long term but it seems OP is in extreme stage so I don't think he could follow any things to reduce the act.Having paid sex is dangerous but not all the time, even BJ from a prostitute can out an end to this and there is no need to be worried about getting HIV when doing this.