If I can't opt out, it's not a community, its a gang.
Again, reverting into bad logic when coming to the belief the community is ganging up on you.
It's not really logic so much as an analysis of the distinction between a community and a gang. A community is voluntary and does not initiate violence. A gang in involuntary, and initiates violence.
It's what we ordinarily mean when we use these words in quotidian communication.