That is why I only deposit the amount I feel I am comfortable losing, of course I want to win but I know it might all go to the house so that is how I control myself. I just gamble as much as I can afford losing without depositing too much.
That means you are not a real gambler, the level at which you gamble is not as high as those that loose huge sum in the gambling industry, a real gambler deposits big sum so they could win big sum in return. It takes time to control oneself out of gambling problems, gambling is not for everybody, if you find out that it doesn't favour you, quit away from it.
I don't agree with you, a gambler is not defined by the sum of money he gambles with. In my opinion someone who plays regularly with the lowest buyins is the same kind of gambler as someone who bets much higher sums. Everybody has a different type of bankroll, not all of us can afford to deposit large sums of money. Being a responsible gambler means for me that we only gamble with the money that we can afford to lose.