Quote from: AicecreaME on September 20, 2021, 10:46:59 AM

Quote from: Barinekapaul on September 18, 2021, 01:33:39 PM

Everyone’s wish is to have a good and dream future which is more brighter than any other thing else, but by so doing, some loose the ones they have gotten already while others tends to gain more and add to their fortunes, thereby making them more famous and relevant. The Bible said “Hold thou fast which thou has” so there is no justification for you to loose the things you have gotten but this don’t always stand as some people are ready to gain even the one which you have accumulated for yourself. In my life, I feel better to gain than loss because;
1.Winning and gaining is what am in this life for
2. Gaining will make me more relevant in all endeavors than to loose
3. For me to get engaged in many things, then my mindset is determined already
on gains
4. I say yes to the pains because no pain then no gain, therefore I should have
more.

In the process of achieving our goal, there are really tendencies that we have to sacrifice some things in order to get what we want and to be where we want to be. It's just a matter of priority. What weighs more than the other, we have to let go to grip the other. Although we can still gain without having to lose anything by planning strategically to mitigate losses of assets and funds and of course, by having the privilege of achieving things without the need to sacrifice anything we have. Some people are lucky enough to gain without losing, while others have it tough before they manage to gain anything and both are fine as long as acquired with integrity.

I think its normal to have losses at first before you end up gaining, than just gaining profits all the time and when you happen to lose, you'll definitely lose everything you have. Although its a matter of priority, but i must say there are no sweet profits if you have not experience losses along the way.

Maybe all of us here have been losing a couple of times and i believe that will be very impossible if you always come up winning without losing even once. Because life is just about losing and winning, you just have to balance it out.