1Your doctor asks you to totally stop gambling because you are having hypertension and depression and this cause you to not only lose weight but you start to have a weak heart that might endanger your life.
2You looked in a bank and all your life savings are almost gone and you will lose your house and car if you continue gambling
3Your wife told you that he is going to divorce you because you are losing time with your family and you are becoming an irresponsible father and husband.
Given these 3 situations, for sure I do not want to experience any of them.
However, if I have to choose which one then I'll choose the 3rd one as I think the 3rd one is the easiest situation to solve compared to the previous 2 situations.
I love my family so much and I dont want to lose them, so it can help to stop gambling if they tell me that they are going to leave me due to my gambling activity.