Quote from: Ucy on Today at 11:12:36 AM

Quote from: HeavensPro on July 23, 2022, 01:08:03 AM

Beauty and ugliness are two sides of the same coin. If you're beautiful you attract attention and if you're ugly it is the same situation. If you don't want to atract any attention you must dress typical for your age and profession and take care of yourself but not too much. Just not to stand out from the crowd

Quote from: Stella Mese on July 23, 2022, 05:04:24 AM

everyone has a different character. sometimes there are times when we don't want to, other people really look at us. but I think it's really hard to avoid that because, for example, if we are attractive, there will be more views towards us and if we are not attractive, there will be more views towards us.

so we should just enjoy it for what it is it's because it's very difficult to avoid people's eyes on us.

Interesting. But I'm referring to the beauty side of attraction. Do we have beautiful/handsome people who want to look unattractive so that no one is too shy or lustful not to concentrate on what is being said or taught by them?

Quote from: RockBell on July 23, 2022, 11:01:31 AM

Quote from: Ucy on July 22, 2022, 03:26:47 PM

Do you ever thought of making yourself ugly to avoid attracting attention from people?

Typically many people try to look beautiful to attract attention or look attractive, but how about making yourself look less attractive to stop attracting attention to yourself? Are there people who think like this or people who dislike people staring at them because they are too attractive/beautiful for them. It's annoying sometimes to see people focus on your appearance while you speak to them... You notice they become too shy and sometimes with lustful look on their faces. This is kind distraction for me which tend to take away attention from important discussions you are having with them that you wish you had mask to make you look ugly or unattractive

To me it actually depends on individual not every loves attention and some loves people given them the whole attention just like babes want to get the whole attention to them self , people like introverts don’t like much attention they just want to do there things and disappear some has for it as to do with individual characters.

Ofcourse. I wonder what introvert-like people could effectively use to solve the attention problem...Mask? Face covering, etc

Instead of covering there face or using a mask I think they should just involve in more conversations with people I think with that they can actually reduce been shy so meeting new people either in school or any form of agencies you know this days People prefer to relate with there phone rather than having a normal conversation with people.