a girlfiriend and will later become our partner I will follow him because our partner will definitely give the best for us, if it is not detrimental and is constructive for the sake of the future for both of us I will obey because in a relationship there must be mutual understanding and calculation for the impact possible
Your partner, girlfriend or boyfriend giving the best for both you isn't always the case. Sometimes, it is most likely something that they don't want you to do or they are against to do. It is not something that you're partner needs to decide but rather it is you who must think how gambling affects your relationship and your financial needs. If gambling is just your leisure activity to have fun and it doesn't affect the both of you in terms of financial and time then your partner asking you to stop it would not be fine.
Some people change - they really value their relationship.
Had it been the case - I would go an extra mile for my partner.
But some people don't want to change - they are stubborn and they go on their way. They are difficult to deal at times too.
Not all people who is gambler like their girl friend to notice that they are into gambling because woman like to restrict their boy friend from gambling and also like to restrict their boyfriend from smoking. This two things is what women can do to bend a man when they come into Man. Women sometimes they are selfish in the character and sometimes they character also contribute positive in the man life. But woman can not make me leave gambling