well since from the start or when your children is still small then you would really be able to see those significances or effects on the time that they grown up.
If you've raised up them well on a good manner where everything should be in control or something that things should be on moderation then you could make out some
comparison into those children who havent been raised up that well.
Be it east or west - Parents would want their kids to learns good manners and have good character.
but in doing so parents sometime over protect them they are too inderent of what their kids are doing. This is a different and strange situation people would not be able to learn who to deal with kids and kids would not be able to figure out how to deal with their parents.