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.....I am a complete failure - never have ever lucked sided me in my life time

Are you in your 20s, 30s or older? And do you have any goals?

It's not uncommon for people to believe that they are not making any progress, but you do not have to be rich in the eyes of others in order to consider yourself a success in terms of achieving your goals, such as if you are able to have an income that is greater than your expenses and to be able to save and invest in such a way that the money that you invest and save might well allow you to get to some variation of fuck you status, even though it could take a long time to get there.. but anyone can describe fuck you status within there own parameters, but the main idea of fuck you status is being able to have enough income that you do not have to work.. and/or that you can completely elect any work that you choose to do. Sometimes it takes a while to reach goals, yet even making progress towards reaching goals may well be considered success and lucky to some degree.

I agree with what you said... and indeed to achieve something it takes time and struggle.

but if I think in this life do not care about rich or poor. because the poor are not necessarily sad, the rich are not necessarily happy.
because in my opinion a rich person is a person who is always grateful in any circumstances.

but don't be lazy to try, and don't give up when there are obstacles.

Those are also good points because it seems that the various kinds of goals that can be set do not need to be ones that are out of reach, but instead, a person can be content with his/her lot in life, but at the same time, working towards reaching goals that s/he believes will improve his/her lot along the way.. and surely some of the goals might be easy to reach and others might be aspirational.. but not necessarily deal breakers (or something to cause unhappiness) if they become too difficult to obtain.. ..

Another aspect could be considering that there are quite a few people who have to work a lot of hours each day, week, month in order to just sustain the monthly expenses, so realistically, there may ONLY be a limited number of hours that could be dedicated towards attempting to reach certain goals that might end up freeing up more time from having to work, so if more time is freed up from having to work, then more time can be used towards working on goals (that is to the extent that the kind of work that is done to put food on the table may or may not be also working towards the longer goals, so in some sense, it might make sense to switch jobs (even if it does not pay as well) if it allows for more time to be spent simultaneously working towards longer term aspirational goals).

Regarding your point about being lazy, each of us has the right to choose how much we want to be lazy or how much time we want to spend on attempting to reach goals or even how much time that we feel that we need for recreation and entertainment activities that might not be directly related to reaching our goals... and sometimes if we are able to combine our activities, then that can free up other time that we have in order that we have the luxury of having downtime in which we are able to be "lazy" without having to feel guilty about that.

I think so too, because being lazy even if the goal is good, well... it's okay.
and in the sense of being lazy here is resting the mind so that it relaxes again after a long time of hard work. because the reality is that humans are lazy and work. and it is needed by the human body. but in my opinion, in living this life, you have to enjoy it, whether you're rich or poor, it's the same. because
to be honest, I personally experience failure very often, but from that failure we must learn.